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Why isn’t Female Ejaculation taught in schools?
(Dec 3, 2007)
by Twisted Sister
If you had sex education at school I’m sure you were taught about male
ejaculation. But I’d be willing to bet that no-body even mentioned
female ejaculation to you.
When I first had sex as a teenager I was surprised when I gushed clear
liquid which made me feel amazing. My boyfriend was disgusted and
thought I had wet myself. His horror affected me and made me think there
was something wrong with me.
I have to say the majority of men that I have slept with thought it was
cool and we happy to find what worked for me and made it happen (lord
love each and every one of you!)
Some though, were disturbed or disgusted by it. They felt it was weird
or wrong. I guess their 2ml ejaculation seemed puny in comparison. They
were squeamish about the mess and they also thought it was urine – which
I can state categorically it isn’t.
It wasn’t until I was 25 and read an article in a magazine about Tantric
sex and found that people paid money to learn how to do this, that I
discovered that it was perfectly normal and even desirable.
What I want to know is why are we so embarrassed about women’s sexual
pleasure that this is just completely ignored during sex education? Why
is it seen as something weird and kinky? Just to have known about it
would have saved me a lot of anxiety and problems with my confidence and
self image.
My wish is that we can ‘normalise’ this so that female ejaculation is
seen as the normal functioning of women’s bodies and not some weird
add-on; that we can deal with the fact that women can and do enjoy sex
and that women are able to talk about their ejaculation as comfortably
as they do other aspects of sex.
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