Lea
I'm a Heartless Bitch because I choose to be. I make my own decisions and live my own life. I listen to advice from other people and value the opinion of people close to me but in the end I make the decisions myself. Like everybody else I make mistakes but I try to learn from them. No matter what bad happens to you, it's seldom 100% somebody else's fault. I try to learn from what *I* did wrong so I can avoid being in the situation again instead of just whining about how unfair it was.
I'm intelligent and have a lot of common sense. I know things rarely are just black and white and I prefer not to look at them that way. When it comes to things that are complicated, I like to get as much information as possible before I form an opinion.
I don't judge people before I know them. Well, that's not entirely true. When I meet somebody, I form an early opinion assuming a lot of stuff that I, to be honest, don't have any idea whether is true or not. But I don't take that opinion for more than it is: an early opinion based on facts that I don't know anything about. I keep my mind open and I'm always ready to chance my opinion when I get to know more about the person.
I'm honest about what I think and feel - I don't want people having to guess what's on my mind - and I prefer that others do the same. Not all of the people close to me are Heartless Bitches but I respect the choices they've made for their life - just as they respect mine.
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