Kat
Actually it's on your website that I've found out that I'm a heartless
bitch :-D. Took the personality test and was honest... I found your
website today and had really fun browsing it. You people rock! Ok, I'll
give the HB-quality-question a try...
I'm a heartless bitch because ever
since the day I got my brain back (that would have been 7 years ago,
that's when the last spark of my love for the sad fuck I called hubby
died and I finally kicked him out to go live with his fucking
girlfriend, sold the apartment we owned, divorced and went on living
alone with our 2 kids, which was actually much easier, having less
laundry to do now and no more whiney questions of "what's there to eat"
after a long day of work for BOTH).
Happily I never stopped working
(even when he wanted me to). I've never tried to fit people's
expectations and I've stopped caring about what [insert
people/men/society/family/neighbors/colleagues and so on here] think of
me and my way of life. And you know what? This actually seems to attract people.
LMAO!
Mmm what else to tell...? how about this - I've grabbed back my first passion
(music/flute) from the dusty corner where it had been buried by
control-freak-hubby for 13 years, took music lessons again, worked hard
for my passion and today I play 1st flute in both a symphonic orchestra
and a Jazz Band? I take my sweet time to decide things, but once I'm set
on something there's not much short of a bomb that can stop me... does
this make me assertive or just plain stubborn? :-D Dunno if this is part
of the "Heartless Bitch" definition but I thought I'd add it in.
I'll NOT define myself here through my work (even if the 42-45 h/week
are something of a strain), telling what you do for a living always
puts preconceived ideas in the heads of people. What else... well I do
kick arse when need be (confronted a sad woman-beater in our block and
called the cubs 2 months ago, he went to jail and she to the hospital,
neighbors were too "afraid" of "personal repercussions" to do
something, they waited for the single mother of 2 who just moved in the
block to defend the poor woman. Just how do those people live with their
consciences?).
I've got nothing against men in general, I've met some pretty decent
guys in my life, I mean people are just that, people, be they men or
women, you get the strong and weak and losers and nice people in both
genders...
If I've been dumb enough to go and marry a the first sweet-talking cute-looking jerk I met coming to France, I've paid for that and moved on.
Please excuse any misspelling I might make, English is not my
Mother tongue.
I apply for membership because I think it might be great fun to browse
the forums, have fun bitching or have some serious talk. Oh yes, and I
think I'd perhaps order one of those T-shirts, they look great lol
What other Bitch qualities do I have ..?. mmmm... I don't care about
whiners, ok actually I DO have a big inclination to smack them between
the ears. I don't feel sorry for the weak of mind or will. I never feel
sorry for myself I'm never bored. I'm curious about people. I'm
heterosexual and I love having good sex from time to time. I'm not
looking for a man in my life, I'm ok with the way things are. If somehow
one day I happen upon Mister Perfect all the same, I'll take pictures
and send them to this website and go "nanner, nanner.." hey just kidding.
I'm not religious (anywhere, if I find out once I die that I have to go
to hell, I'm sure that I'll meet the most interesting people there like
Mozart, Beethoven...).
I'm looking forward to the day, when my 15 year old daughter will speak
enough English, so that I can make her discover this great website. I'll
do the same for my 11 year old son :-D
And right now I'm fed up talking about myself, this is not something I
like to do. How about you mail me that password already and let's have
our next conversation in the forums?
See you
Kat
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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