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Marianne

I recently got out of a very unbalanced, unhealthy relationship with a man who was in a constant state of competition with me. He was jealous of my professional achievements, and got very upset whenever something good happened to me because "it was so unfair, and nothing good ever happened to him." Basically, he made me feel like all my good results were just pure luck: I didn't deserve any of them. He was also very insecure in a group (which I am not), and would often privately ask me to stop talking when we were with friends so he could "have the spotlight." Believe it or not, I did. It took me 3 years to realize his insecurities had nothing to do with me, and that I couldn't help him. Breaking up with him was one of the best things I ever did for myself, not only because I no longer have to be scared to do something "too" well, but also because it opened my eyes to all the manipulation and emotional blackmail some people are playing with each other.

I will never again accept to change the way I live my life to accommodate somebody else's lack of spinal structure. My friends (and my new partner) are people who don't think their own worth lies in the way other people see them.

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