Mahala
Although I want to be a member of Heartless Bitches International, I am
not at all heartless. My sisters and friends come to me for advice
because they like my honesty and directness. I've been labeled as "the
mouth" of my family for being open about my opinions. Trust me, I'm not
whining. I love my family very much and find it flattering that they
labeled me this way. At least I know that they've been listening.
Being an honest person, I gain the trust of those around me. Certain
things annoy me: superficial things and ideas...(e.g. what's "In,"
bling-bling, and "wants" rather than "needs").
The other thing that
annoys me is the world around me. Of course I can see the good in the
world, but does it outweigh the bad? Another thing about my life I'm
allowing to be put under a magnifying glass is my relationships with
men. I'm never lonely, not that I'm never alone. I've gone years at a
time without having a boyfriend. I promised myself, at 13 years old,
that I wouldn't engage in sexual intercourse until after I get married,
and I've kept that promise. I'm 21 now. My last relationship, however,
freaked me out. I finally understood why my sisters stayed in horrible
relationships that seemed so obvious to answer. It was easy for me to
answer their questions on what they should do because feelings were
taken out of the problem and answered with logic and reason.
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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