Lena
I have been thinking about this for some time, and it's a rather
difficult statement to make, because I think a quality "Heartless Bitch" is
probably not heartless except with those who want to mistreat her in the first
place. I think she would be loyal and honest with her close friends, and
probably a great person to date if you didn't mistreat her.
In that sense, I fit. I think others would say I am generally an easy-going
and friendly person to have around, but when I need to be, I can be very
persuasive and, if the situation calls for it, indignant. If it is for the right
cause, I will stick with it no matter what others say.
Relationship-wise, I think if I were still dating (I'm married now, to a
very honest and sweet man) I would definitely be much more Heartless than I used
to be. I think I used to put up with the loser guys just because I was too nice
to find something better to do. Now that I am older, I am sure my time would be
more precious to me than their fragile egos. And certainly, any man who was
verbally abusive, emotionally abusive, arrogant, or rude would find the heel of
my shoe in his ass rather quickly as I kicked him out the door. I just don't
have the time to waste anymore; I've got other things to do.
I have noticed that I am a Heartless Bitch regarding my child--when others
are trying to offer useless or pushy advice to me (strangers in grocery stores
or family members--all the same to me) I am very clear about what they can do
with their advice. When strangers want to touch her or hold her or talk to her I
am, again, extremely clear in telling them where to stick it.
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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