Karolina
So yeah, I must admit that for years on end (in a true non Heartless Bitch manner) I blamed my upbringing for my inability to take control of my life and for my insatiable need to fit-in. Thus, my life ambitions were directed towards adjusting aspects of my personality (such as assertiveness) with the hope of finding a group that would accept the "new-and improved me" or better yet, finding that special someone who would complete me.
However, after just having completed my first year of university, my perspective has changed. I am educating myself, I am choosing my own friends (rather than craving for them to choose me), I am living an unconstrained life and I have realised that the new-found control which I have over my life is the only thing which substantiates and completes me. I still aspire to fit in, but I aspire to fit-in for who I am, and that is why I would like to become a member of Heartless Bitches.
Perhaps I have not yet reached Heartless Bitch status and I do realize that this is not a support group which is going to help me discover the Bitch in me; what I seek, however, is some intellectual stimulation by being able to discuss my views on ignorance, nice guys and so forth with other individuals who are equally assertive, equally opinionated and equally fed up of being expected to change.
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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