Jenny
For the longest time I let everybody walk all over me...my parents, my
sisters, friends, even my boyfriend. In high school I was always the
loud, obnoxious, and outgoing girl. For some reason I let people push me
around, and when it came to speaking my mind or standing up for myself,
I just couldn't do it. I kept all my thoughts and feelings to myself.
Now at the age of 21, anybody who knows me knows that I don't care whose
feet I step on in the process of speaking my mind, sticking up for
myself, or just sharing an opinion of mine. Saying what I feel is not
hard to do; I don't know why I was so afraid of doing it for so long.
This quality about me either makes me or breaks people...people either
love me for it or hate me for it, and those who hate me, really hate me.
And you know what? I really could give a shit. If you piss me off, I'll
let you know. If I have an opinion, I'll let you know it. I never
thought of being outspoken as a bitchy quality, but apparently a lot of
people think it is. And I'm really ok with being called a bitch. I mean,
I don't go out of my way to offend people or hurt their feelings. If I
do offend someone, then I'll do the right thing and apologize. But for
the most part...I don't care what I say or who I say it to. Standing up
for yourself, speaking your mind is such an amazing feeling. Once you do
it, you'll live by it.
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