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I wrote that a little while ago while thinking about words that summoned my character. I prefer people to dislike me for who I am, then like me for who I am not. Yes I know its a cliché but it fits...its the truth. I don't hold back on my feelings and thoughts, some have even accused me of lacking tact, when in reality, they are the ones lacking the nerve to really hear what I am saying. I don't try to be anything. I am simply me. No makeup, no additives and preservatives to make my looks more appealing to the world. I don't wear any kinds of masks, whether physical or emotional. What you see is what you get...raw and uncut, which is why I have a very hard time relating to men. Things always end up being a power struggle, since most guys are used to women who will do pretty much anything to please. I don't make unreasonable demands from anyone. Only that I am treated with the same amount of respect anyone deserves without doing something to merit otherwise. I don't need much to cut people out of my life, and I don't mean petty acts. I don't tolerate nonsense. I don't tolerate any form of disrespect. I don't think I am better than anyone because we are all human, but there are some of us who choose to be people, and there are some of us who choose to be assholes. I choose the former. Those who choose the latter get treated exactly in the manner they choose to treat the rest of the world. I like strength in people, both physical and mental.
I have a backbone, I have a brain and they are both used frequently. I am very proud to be a woman and would not choose otherwise. Men do not define my womanhood; they only accentuate it because we are two parts of the same whole. Women who tolerate anything less than total and complete respect from the opposite sex do not know their own worth. Women who are subservient, who claim to be real women simply because they are domestics, are fools. If you are a domestic by choice, more power to you, if you are a domestic because it is the rightful place for a woman, you don't deserve the title of woman. I embellish in everything that makes me female, that makes me woman, the opposite of man, yet so alike. Any man that treats me with less respect because I am a woman is disrespecting himself.
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