Cortne
I'm a strong woman who knows that feminism isn't about hating men; it's about breaking down the patriarchal gender roles. It's about respect.
I own my sexuality and I'm not ashamed or afraid of it. I don't use the words "slut" or "prude" to judge other women for their sexual choices.
I've reclaimed the words "bitch" and "pussy". A pussy is a very powerful part of a woman's body -- it can create pleasure, withstand vigorous sex, and usher new life into the world. "Pussy" shouldn't mean "weak".
I don't bitch and moan about my problems. I fix them.
I'm madly in love with a man that understands that true relationships are built on equality. We're getting married soon, because we want to join our lives. That won't make me his possession, and I won't be a housewife or even take his name. But then, all of those are my life choices. A woman can be a housewife raising three kids and still be a feminist. It's about having the right (and power) to break out of constrained roles, not about keeping women from being housewives if that's what they really want.
Speaking of choices, I'm pro-choice and I vote, because I don't think personal reproductive issues should be settled by the legislative branch.
I've noticed that the media is starting to use "Ms." for women instead of "Miss" or "Mrs.", and it makes me happy. But I know that we can't be anywhere near equality when you never hear about a "career father".
I'm centered and at peace with myself. But I'm also ready to kick some ass around misogynists. "Real" men aren't intimidated by strong, powerful women, and "real" women aren't scared off by other women standing up for themselves.
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