Charissa
I have a hard time being sympathetic to those with problems who have no
desire to change them. If you realize something in your life sucks, and
you want to change it, I'll do everything in my power to help you make
it better. If you're not willing to put the effort in to change it, then
neither am I. Nor am I going to sit and let you whine about it, either.
There are few things that bother me more in life than people who can't
take care of themselves and their problems. Yes, life is hard. Yes,
sometimes things suck. However, there is a lot of good in life, too, if
you have the drive to make it happen, and to make the most of those good
times. I know far too many people who live in a world where nothing is
good enough. It drives me crazy to see people who have a lot going for
them, and have a lot of good things in their lives throw them away and
continuously whine about how much their life sucks or how they wish they
had this, that or some other thing. Please. Spare me the melodrama and
go inflict it on someone who can whine with you--there are plenty of 'em
out there.
I believe myself to be completely in control of my life. I may not have
control over every single aspect of my life at all times, but my life
and my happiness are mine (and only mine) to control, and I don't even
have the time of day for people who constantly play the victim and blame
somebody or something else for their unhappiness or their problems. Take
some personal responsibility, people! You'll be much better for it!
I tend to come off as, well, a Heartless Bitch, to some. But those that
know me well know that I'm more than just a Heartless Bitch. I will back up and
fight for those important to me with everything I have to offer, but I
have no patience and no time for puling weaklings with less self-respect
than a ball of ear wax. I'll give most anyone a chance, but if you lose
my respect, don't expect to register on my radar screen again anytime
soon. I've got better things to do.
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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