Sonia
I guess you could say I'm a Heartless Bitch because I actually have
standards for those that I associate with and am not afraid to use them.
I've had my share of female friends (and have since disassociated myself
from them) that are with guys for the wrong reason--because they can't
be alone. (Not to mention that they only got the guys using sex or
tears.) Are they afraid of what they might find if they spend time alone
with themselves?
I'm an independent type, but I know when I need people
around me. Co-dependency, though, just makes me squirm. Then there are
my not-so-hot guy friends that don't see the hypocrisy of their wanting
to date hot girls but who are not even willing to consider not-so-hot
girls.
I give everyone a chance, but give me a reason to believe that
you don't meet my standards for friendship, and you probably won't hear
from me much anymore. I'll listen to people's whining for a bit, and
offer advice, but if it goes on past a few conversations, I say, "Ok, I
tried to help, good luck, get back to me when you've resolved this." I
have no qualms telling my friends when they're being excessively whiny,
because even these good people sometimes have their lapses.
There are
many people I have no desire to associate with, and I will show it. I
laugh at people who are afraid of the dark. If you are careful and aware
of your surroundings, being outside at night shouldn't be a problem. As
for guys, some I've dated were lacking in the intellectual department,
so they didn't last more than 2 weeks or so. I see no point in
prolonging something that is detrimental to my intellectual well being.
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