Kerry
I have stopped listening to my friends about what idiotic thing their
boyfriend or girlfriend did. For most of them, we long ago established
that he or she was a total dipshit and somehow this is still surprising?
"But I can't leave them, they're my other half/I love them/My family met
them!" So what? Oh yes, I forgot: The doormat phenomenon. I'll just be
unhappy so others won't look down on me. Last time I checked, you had to
look down to see a doormat.
"Victims" should just get over it. You don't like how things are? Change
it. No one is that innocent. And for those who never saw it coming,
maybe if you wiped off the rose-coloured glasses you might see what is
actually going on.
I am my own, complete, person with my own aspirations and dreams and
nothing someone says or does will keep me from them. There was no
picking my University to follow my boyfriend. Why not? Because I am
defined by myself, not by some guy who may or may not be there in 6
months.
When being told "I love you" by a boyfriend of 2 weeks, I replied
"That's nice." Why do I need to fake feelings I don't have to appease
the other person? I'm sure it would be the nice thing to do, but that
would just lure him into a false sense of intimacy that wasn't there.
There are many more reasons why I am and have been called a Heartless
Bitch, but it does get boring listening to the bitching and whining of
others so I'll spare the world.
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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