I don't apologize for living my life according to my strong personal ethics, for asserting my boundaries, for taking care of myself. I don't complain when I face hardship--I survive and turn the situation into something good. I accept help when it is offered freely and with good motivation, but if it is offered with the hope of manipulating me or out of some great need to show off what a martyr the person is, I decline, and don't hesitate to explain why.

If a person dares to think they can take advantage of me or actually tries, I say once what I think of it, and don't give another chance.

I'm proud of my motherhood and accept the circumstances that gave me my children (rampant hedonsim the first time, rape the second time) without apology or self-pity.

I am myself, I don't front, I take pleasure in my life. I don't hate anyone. I have pity and a bit of disdain for weak people who have fucked up their own lives, but when I find people who just need a bit of support to pull out of someone else's shit, I use my own kick-ass ability to give them a chance to become a Heartless Bitch like me.

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