Brian
Because I am sick of those women who you titled "princesses" and the men they love.
1) I am sick of those women who won't leave a relationship that is either not right for her, or worse, harmful just so she can be in a relationship
There is a difference in being in love and loving someone. Someone who is the first type but not the second type would say this: "I love you, I NEED you, I CAN'T LIVE without you!" A person who truly loves someone will be willing to endure hardship so the other can be benefited. I heard a few women talking in the hallway while waiting for class (I am a college student) a few months ago. One of the women said, "My butthead boyfriend?" They are still together. It drives me nuts to think she is still with him who she herself claimed to be a butthead.
2) I am sick of those women who try to be "nice" when they shouldn't.
Continuing my example, I wonder if she ever said, to his face, why he is a butthead. I never claim to be perfect. I DO want to know if someone doesn't live me for some reason and WHY. Otherwise, how would I know I have a problem I need to work on? This also goes for break-ups. Sure, try the nice route to begin with. But if it doesn't work because he won't leave you alone, then for crying out loud, BECOME HIS WORST NIGHTMARE!
3) If these women want to love someone... then love yourself!
Loving someone who won't love you is harmful. By doing this they are indirectly not loving themselves because their boyfriend/finance/husband does not love them. Their real problem is insecurity! They are afraid that by leaving him she won't be in a relationship, just like those Nice Guys your members have already ranted about.
Richard Crawford ("Why I Date Heartless Bitches Instead Of Nice Girls") is right. Your type of women is hard to find. I do want a relationship, I just not going to compromise my beliefs and goals just to be in a relationship or to "get laid."
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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