Antialias
I have a list of what I call "Stupid Girly Shit," which I try to avoid at all costs. I don't think there's anything wrong with feeling emotions or loving puppies, or whatever, but wearing tube tops and wearing your lipstick so far beyond your natural lipline that you look like a DivaStarz doll, so you can get a guy (who is probably picturing you blowing him) to carry boxes and lift things for you that you know damn well you can get yourself is tragic. I don't like mind games. I dislike it when people insist on waving their emotions in your face like group home spastics. I believe in self-control because controlling yourself is pivotal to controlling your life. I don't think that makes me a terrible person. I don't think being in control and taking responsibility for myself and no one else makes me an evil cunt. I believe I have the right bear arms, and the right to speak my mind. I respect your right to do the same, whether I like it or not (and if I don't, you'll hear about that, too). I understand that when you use the term "Heartless Bitch," it is with a sense of humor, and I can laugh at myself as well as others (although I try not to provide many reasons to)! I think that the best way to get your point across is concisely, clearly, at conversational volume. I think you should only cuss when it makes sense, but you shouldn't cuss "just 'cuz." I think I can be feminine without being hysterical, flirtatious, helpless, or childish. I believe that I look plenty womanly wearing a T-shirt, jeans, and some old beat-up boots. I can also wear a dress and heels without sacrificing my dignity. I don't think I'm too fat, and I don't need to ask my boyfriend if he agrees. I can be considerate without being a doormat, and I can be in charge without being a cunt. I understand the happy medium, but I'm not embarrassed by my own extremes. I don't hate men for being men, nor women for being women. I simply disdain anyone, regardless of their "category," who is ignorant, whiny, blindly hateful, who hates something but refuses to do anything about it, needs other people to convince them that they are good enough, or who needs to convince themselves that others are not good enough so they can feel good about themselves. I hate pointless cruelty, but admire people who lampoon that which they oppose in an insightful way. I hate it when people have make statements that they cannot justify. I am not afraid to tell these people in precise detail why they are wrong, followed by colorful descriptions of what I think they should go do with the rest of their day.
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