I've got a Masters Degree in Physics, I don't care much about clothes, I
wear glasses, and work as a computer programmer. I've got brains. All
this means I don't look like a princess. Rather, I'm a viking, close to
6 ft, with muscle. And I like it.
I define my own rules. Happily divorced from a Whiner (he dumped me for
a Whineress, what can I say but "Thank You!"), I now date a guy with a
much more optimistic outlook on life. We are trying to define our
relationship on our own terms, looking beyond the "getting married and
have kids" version as it doesn't appeal to either of us. We still have
our own apartments, living together when we want and staying apart when
we just need some space. Fortunately he doesn't panic when I tell him
"I'm getting bored, I'll just go home now, see you later". Trying to
find out what I want instead of blindly following the social norm is not
easy, but I'd rather be alone than in a relationship that doesn't fit
me.
People complain that "The Boss doesn't listen to us" but when I ask if
they have actually tried to talk to The Boss about it, they say "no, The
Boss should know these things". As if being promoted to Boss, you
instantly learn everything and are not allowed to commit any errors.
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