I am a Heartless Bitch because I realize that I am the only person on this earth that will be responsible for my success, or my failure. I will not settle, or settle down with the first idiot who buys me a drink and says I'm pretty. Instead, I will be happy with the knowledge that I am a person unto myself, not someone who needs to find someone else to make me whole or happy. Self reliance, and being a bitch, for me, means being adult enough to make tough decisions, make sacrifices, and take not just the praise for the good consequences of my actions, but also the criticisms for the bad consequences of my actions. It means sacrificing my personal life for three years so that I can go back to University to get my degree, while working full time to pay for it. It means having not just an opinion, but an educated opinion; and not merely screaming at someone whose opinion is different from mine, but debating the merits and faults of both sides of the issue. Most importantly though, being a bitch means being grown up enough to realize that not everyone in the world is worth my time, and these people resent me trying to change them, as much as I resent them trying to change me. Just cut bait and move on, and live your OWN life, not everyone else's
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