Jessie
Consistently (and I suppose at times, unfortunately) throughout my life I have isolated myself because of my strong beliefs as well as my strong desire to express them. Countless times I have been called a dyke and/or lesbian, simply for having an opinion.
I suppose it's trendy now to isolate oneself as a female from males. How will equality EVER be achieved this way?
I'm a plus size woman. I'm damn proud of it, AND I am sickened by the incessant complaining I have to endure almost on a daily basis by fellow females. Women will start talking to me about their weight loss plans (I work in a grocery store, so this is just the prime place for that to happen), and they will look at me as if I should have the weight loss plan as well, as if I should be bonding with them on the dieting subject.
I'm also tired of women who ask me about marriage. I'm 26 now and I guess that this is the age when women begin thinking about marriage. Well, you know what?! I'm never getting married. And if something happens where I change my mind on that--I will NEVER, ever take my partner's last name. My last name is part of who I am. It's part of my identity. I am an individual. I can never become part of someone else in that way.
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