Jeanette
I'm a Heartless Bitch because I got married at 21 (it was the "right thing to do") and realized a year later that I had no idea who I was or where I was going in life. I knew I was NOT, however, a maid, a cook, or a nag...which my LAZY husband didn't quite grasp. I spent months soul-searching, trying to figure out what to do. Here, I had married this man, promised to spend the rest of my life with him, and then realized that with all my heart I didn't want that. I spent the 3 years we were together encouraging him, boosting him up, giving him countless ideas for the business that he wanted to start to no avail. He accomplished nothing, and I became nothing but a shadow of whom I wanted to be. So I made an excruciating choice and left him, causing strife between his family (whom I had grown attached to) and myself
Since then I have rediscovered myself. I have gained so much confidence, and I can truly say I KNOW myself, and I love myself. What I can't stand is people that are so goddamned superficial that their biggest concern is whether they're having a good hair day or not. Don't they realize there's more to life? If they even spent one moment thinking, really thinking, about their lives they'd be appalled...if they're even capable of such thought.
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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