Liz
I piss off women who think I should, as a woman, be misandric in support
of causes which are only hurt by misandric stupidity like that displayed
by the woman who runs the Phenomenal Women web ring. She says that as of
Jan 10 this year, they won't be accepting any more sites which deal with
D/s. This is because she simply cannot bear the idea that women
even pretend to be subservient to men. So I write her a letter, which in
itself was fun because she specifically instructs you not to
write and tell her how you feel about this. However, I am still so moved
by her 'no woman should be subservient to man' thing that I assert my
feminine right to my own voice proudly by disregarding her wishes. I
tell her I am un-submitting my site from her ring.
I tell her
that it is as restrictive of a woman to tell her she may not choose to
allow herself to play at subservience as it is to be truly subservient.
In my opinion, the true ideal of feminism is to allow all women their
own true voice without being ridiculed, or abused for it. That includes
being free to play with bondage as well as being free of
it. So...if that kind of thing is what a Phenomenal Woman is
all about, I'll just have to stick to being a Mostly Extraordinary, But
Really Tired Cause I Have To Fold All The Laundry And Take A Bath Before
I Can Go To Bed Tonight And Get Tied Up And Fucked Six Ways To Sunday
And Fall Asleep In A Deliriously Happy Daze Woman. That's
pretty much the way I look at everything. I am an abuse survivor who
pisses off the survivor groups because I suggest people stop using
having been abused as an excuse for being idiots or manipulating people
or refusing to grow up. I am a feminist who pisses off the feminists
because I insist that men are equal to women. I don't conform and I
don't suck up and that makes just about everyone else uncomfortable.
Clearly, I am a Heartless Bitch.
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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