Hi! My name is L-A and I am a Recovering Doormat. I've been in Doormats
Anonymous for four years now. Like I always say, admitting that you have
a problem is always the first step in recovery. :)
And I am a Heartless Bitch because...
BLUNT HONESTY is my native
language and most people, especially men, can't handle it. I'm not
afraid to call things the way that I see them and I don't really care if
I hurt your feelings. Suck it up babe. Learn to live with difference. I
love having an opinion and the strength to take a stand. And if I don't
have enough knowledge to have an opinion on a certain topic, I will take
the time to research it, and create an opinion.
And I'm not afraid of
confrontation, I am always ready to do a little mental kickboxing with
any idiot that is dumb enough to engage me in a verbal battle. And I
believe in responsibility. People must always be held responsible for
every thought, word, deed, and action that they have or do. No excuses,
no bullshit. Take responsibility and own up to it. "Do what you want,
but harm none" is the credo I live by.
I believe that all people should
think about the consequences of their actions before they make random
choices. And I understand that some may have had a shitty life and I can
feel their pain, but get over it. If I can survive my life (and I'm
doing quite well), you can rise above it all. We all have our crosses to
bear and lessons to learn. But please make some good choices while you
are evolving, just don't whine and never do anything about it.
Activism
is crucial to one's sanity. And settling makes me want to puke. This is
my biggest hang up. I can't stand the way that our society raises women
to be pretty dolls that need a man to survive. For the Love of The
Goddess, NEVER sell yourself short. I've been there and done that. Being
with some jerk that doesn't have a fraction of your talents and
abilities is like slow suicide of the soul. I'd rather be alone than be
with someone that is not high quality. And that is a lesson that I have
learned the hard way.
If I screw up, I can admit it and make amends,
but if somebody else screws up, there had better be a sincere apology
coming my way.
I believe in respect. I respect myself, I respect
others, so others had better respect me or they are gonna get a talking
to. I'm my own person, you see. I don't drink, smoke or do drugs. I have
many morals and values. I do not give into peer pressure. I am down to
earth. What you see is what you get, and if you have any questions, just
ask and I would be happy to answer them for you.
I'm smart, a devoted
academic, funny, beautiful, intuitive, emotional, quite sexy, damn good
in bed ;), psychic, open-minded, a great dancer, and overall a very good
and caring person. I LOVE to read and have excellent communication
skills.
I believe in helping people, loving the earth, and loving
the animals. And I am so very strong and getting stronger every moment.
I do have some negative qualities, but those are under construction. I'm
am always improving myself, and the day that I stop improving, will be
the day that I start to die. I've come a long way and I'm very proud of
myself. I will not change for anyone.
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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