I was lying in bed just the other night when I informed
my significant other that I was moving back into my own
apartment. His comment? "I'm used to this." My only reply
was, "Well thank God you have practice with being dumped
sweetheart, it makes it a lot easier for me." Why, I wonder,
doesn't he see this recurring theme as a problem with
him? Instead, I am labeled a "cold Heartless Bitch".
So I am now a cold Heartless Bitch living in my own
clean, garbage-taken-out-nightly, dishes-actually-done
apartment.
I completely detest those who whine about how they
have been cheated on, taken advantage of, or treated
poorly. The solution to your problem is simple: It's
called a spine people and I'd advise you to get one.
If you lie down like a doormat, don't be surprised if
people walk all over you.
Another thing that really gets my panties in a bunch
are people who put themselves down for being stupid and,
rather than correct the problem, do that same thing again.
A perfect example of this is my now "ex" significant other.
Once a week I would ask him to tape a television show for
me while I was in class. Each week I came home to find the
same thing - he had forgotten to tape it or missed the
first/last half of the show. His excuse always consisted of
the same self-pitying, stomach turning, pathetic line: "I'm
such a loser, I can't do anything right. I don't even know
why you're still with me." This translates into: I don't want
you to get angry with me so I will attempt to guilt you into
feeling sorry for me. Darn shame "guilt" isn't in my vocabulary
honey. And sympathy for being incompetent due to stupidity
doesn't hold water with me, so go peddle your "gimme pity pout"
somewhere else. I can not be the only person who sees this
bullshit for exactly what it is - bullshit.
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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