Kelly
I'm a Heartless Bitch because I don't settle.
I don't settle for sitting around the house, eating Snickers while watching Oprah and then complaining "I don't have time to exercise".
I don't settle for friends who troll around on World of Warcraft in their parents' basements, refuse to get a job and go to work and be independent.
I won't settle for a man who is not my equal. Whether he feels he should be in control and bosses me around or if he is a "Nice Guy" who can't make any choices for himself.
I don't settle for being told what is attractive and what isn't. I am strong, fit and healthy. When I have an opinion, I voice it. I eat what I want, when I want (which can vary. Some days I want a cheeseburger, some days I want a salad. I listen to my gut. Pun not intended).
I don't settle for being told I'm a freak because I find Geoffrey Rush WAAAAYYYYY sexier than any HIMBO (Orlando Bloom) I run across.
I don't settle for being lazy or bored. When I start to feel lazy/bored, instead of sitting around and whining about it, I get up and do something. I don't settle for whining to my friends or coworkers because whining about whatever ailment doesn't make it go away any faster.
I love being single. Single shouldn't even be the right title for not being in a relationship. I'm not a singular entity. I'm surrounded with friends and family who love me.
I don't need to be in a relationship to feel loved or special. I am whole with or without a significant other. I don't just jump from man to man because I can't be alone. Don't get me wrong, being in a happy relationship is nice but I'm not crying away about it and looking for it. When the time is right, when I'm not looking, Mr Right will find me...and love the Heartless Bitch as well.
I'm sometimes called a Bitch. Why? I think because "Strong, Assertive, Independent Woman Who Intimidates Me" is too long for most people to say.
If I man asks me out and if I'm not interested, I'll politely tell him so instead of ignoring him or leading him on. I guess that makes me a Bitch.
I'm apparently a Bitch because I don't like to listen to people who have nothing positive to say. I tell them to not taint my good mood with their pitiful "I missed Dancing With The Stars and I'm going to cry about it" drivel.
I'm called a Bitch because I ask people to not call me Babe, Baby, Sweetheart, etc.
I'm told I'm a Bitch because I don't drop my panties when a man calls me pretty. Hello? I already know that I'm beautiful and good looking. It's nice to be told that every once in a while, but every five minutes makes me think that that man either A. Has nothing interesting to say, B. Thinks if he throws me a few insincere compliments, I'll suck his dick under the table or C. He's hoping I'll throw him some compliments his way because he's insecure and KNOWS that he is not worth my time.
If that's what makes a Bitch, then I'll happily respond with "thank you". I'm not going to apologize for being intelligent, self-motivated, ambitious, beautiful and opinionated.
A lot of people tell me I'm SOOOO MATURE for being a 20 yr old who doesn't live with my parents, has a good job and is self-reliant. I don't think I'm mature for my age. I think my fellow peers should stop suckin' on Momma's teats and take control of their own lives.
If anyone ever says to me "You are so cool/beautiful/smart, I don't deserve you" then I agree with them and leave.
Country: Canada
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