Jess
I'm a Heartless Bitch for a few reasons. Number one is, I don't have any sympathy for anyone who won't help themselves, anyone who isn't trying to improve their life. If they're trying, and they hit a rough spot, I might help, if I like the way they're headed, but if they're just wussing around, waiting for someone to 'save' them or 'fix' their life, they make my blood pressure go up. I'm not unsympathetic, but my sympathy is tightly controlled.
Another reason I'm a Heartless Bitch is that I will not take a backseat in the occasional relationship I indulge in. I will either be in control, or we will be fiercely inter-dependent. None of that glancing-at-the-boyfriend-when-it's-time-to-order bullshit. And I never get as upset as when I see a woman who can't do anything without the approval of some male, be it father, brother, lover, whatever.
I also tend to drop someone in a goddamn hurry if they're not what I'm looking for, in friendships and relationships. I'm not wasting my time.
I rarely compromise when it comes to dealing with another person, and never just to end the argument. I don't seek out confrontation, but I never shy away from it, either.
While I respect other people's right to have opinions, if they start shoving their opinions in my face, I go into attack mode.
Country: United States
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