Aiobhan
I am a Heartless Bitch. I don't even need to capitalize it because everyone knows I am. Yes, at my core I am a compassionate, intelligent, nurturing woman capable of empathy and forgiveness, but Bitchiness and disdain surrounds that like an impenetrable wall. I am sick and tired of women devaluing themselves for men - and I'm even more tired of women devaluing men because that's the only way they can feel powerful or important. See my post on the subject here.
I grew up with the Duchess of Heartless Bitches - my mother divorced two huge douchebags (one of whom is my father) before joining this club and is now an executive VP in a multinational company with a 0% tolerance to bullshit and a deep-seated disdain for women who "bake cakes and whine all day". She raised three kids, is now in a wonderful relationship with a wonderful man who is equally pissed off by women who simper and men who overcompensate, and I have learned well from them.
In short, I guess what makes me a Heartless Bitch are the qualities I grew up with and the pity I feel for women and men who can't seem to get their head out of their ass long enough to realize that, hey, maybe if they acted like a worthwhile human being someone would treat them like they were. I can want kids and a picket fence and a dog without being a Stepford wife and I can be a strong, independent, no-bullshit woman without being a militant man-hating feminist. So I am.
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