Sandra
I love myself. I don't make excuses for my personality, I am who I am. I'm honest, open-minded, prone to mood-swings and rather accepting (unless you're whiny/ needy/ boring, then I lose all patience). I don't believe in sugar-coating things coz that's how I like it dealt to me.
I hate people who get emotionally attached to anything and everything. Trusting too easily is setting yourself up for a huge letdown. So is making things out to be more than they are. Its commonsense to know these things but if you're stupid enough to repeat your mistakes, I'm Bitchy enough to stop caring. I am sick and tired of listening to people whine about their love-life. If the highlight of your day was obsessing about another person's feelings towards you, I feel sorry for you.
I hate it when people try to "spare my feelings" because not only do I feel that they've lied to me but I also doubt if they know me at all. Coz it just shows that they don't trust my objectivity, judgment and sensibility. Its an insult to my intelligence and I prefer not to be surrounded by such people.
I hate people who have to be liked by everyone. Because that just shows how insecure they are about themselves coz they need everybody's approval to consider themselves decent human beings... its pathetic. Now there's nothing wrong with being congenial and diplomatic, but when you do it to an extent that you become spineless you have a problem.
Now on to what I like... I like people who treat me as an individual, respect my opinions, are reasonably intelligent (witty is even better) and have a passion for life and living it to the fullest. And I love the fact that I have many such people in my life, who know me and my patterns and get me as the Heartless Bitch that I am. I think it's sad that bad experiences, bitterness or loneliness turn some women Heartless. I am Heartless, coz that's my personality... nothing and no-one drove me to it. I know what I want and I'm intelligent enough to figure out how to get it without appealing to anyone's ego or emotions.
I'd rather respect people enough to tell to the face (politely, the first time) that we have different interests and that we might not gel well together. Because I'd rather be alone and not be friends with people for convenience and I'd rather not waste any more of my time (and theirs). Now I don't expect everyone to be fond of me, it's just that I become the Heartless Bitch coz I have the guts (audacity sometimes) to say what we're both thinking in the first place ... Its ironic. But I wouldn't change a thing
PS. I didn't read the "Hints to the hopeful" section. Either I make it entirely on my own or I don't
Country: India
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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