Berni
I believe it would be interesting to be involved in this
website. Even if I don't make it in, I will still come back and read what
everyone has to say.
I don't think anyone becomes a Heartless Bitch overnight-- I certainly
didn't. I was raised to be a nice quiet girl that "went along." My
father would always chant, "God hates divorce." Well then, God should do
something about these stupid, controlling men so we don't have to get a
divorce! My guilt-ridden mother is still with him. The women in my
family don't want to upset the men and they did whatever they needed to do to
"keep the peace." What they were really doing was selling their souls so
they didn't have to be on their own. What's wrong with being on your own
and standing up for yourself? This is America!
I've become the person I am because of the many bad choices I've made and
the men I have ended up with. I'm not a man-hater, I'm just sick of people
wanting to control other people. I have worked diligently to become and
REMAIN independent. I'm a struggling single mother but I will not always
be. I have my own house, pay my own bills, and am in school to become
completely financially independent. I do want a man-- not for sex, not
for security, not for someone to cure my loneliness-- I want a partner to
enjoy life with. Of course, I need to work on myself first and be on my
own for a while to get my priorities straight.
I don't NEED a man to save me and I don't want to be someone's
mother. Education is the key. They've got be have a desire to learn
and improve themselves just as I do. I have a big heart so I understand
that I may not make it in but I don't have a tolerance for bullshit. If
you think I'm cheating on you-- then I'm not the one. If you have to
call me to see where I'm at-- then I'm not the one. If you want to
rush into marriage because of some agenda-- then I'm not the one. If I
happen to fall for this stupidity and suddenly wake up and you want me back, TOUGH SHIT! If your feelings are hurt because I don't call or come
by-- then let me get the violins!
People don't change...-- not that much, really. Bad behavior is
learned and it's not the woman's job to change a man-- or vice versa.
It can be unlearned, but not likely,--and it has to come completely
from the person that needs to change their behavior.
Country: United States
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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