Natasha
So I joined a dating site... I'm new in town and am getting really
bored not knowing anyone to go out with. Except most of the girls I work with
who are all 20 year old single mothers who are waiting for their baby daddies to
get out of jail...
I thought I'd use my profile from the dating site because it says quite a
bit about me:
"I'm pretty easygoing, like to have fun in whatever I'm doing. I like
change, eating healthy.
I'd like to meet people who are laid-back, open-minded and considerate. I
don't believe in 'soulmates' or destiny but I do believe in compatibility,
mental awareness and being secure and confident with yourself before you can
ever have a healthy relationship. I believe that you can never expect someone to
'make' you happy if you are not completely happy with yourself first.
I'm very compassionate, try to be the change I want to see in the world and
be socially conscious. I like to find out all of the whys and hows of anything
before I make my solid opinion. (I dislike when people rant on with their
opinion on something when they haven't taken the time to really learn about
it...) I'm always open to new ideas and my opinion is subject to change as I
learn more and grow wiser. I like to try new things, I'd love to learn to
play drums or do yoga or ti chi or design a website really well...
One thing I can't ever understand is how a person could ever be mean
towards an innocent animal. Cruelty makes me sick to my stomach. I can be very
serious, but I also have a quirky, kinda off sense of humor. I thought Napoleon
Dynamite was freakin' HILARIOUS.
All that being said... I'm not really 'looking' per se, I love being
single, I don't feel I need a man to 'complete' my life or to be happy, I
dislike jealousy and insecurity very much- but I am getting bored not knowing
many others down here. I'd like to get out and meet some nice people, and get to
know Philly and all of its great places. Oh, and I grew up in Nova Scotia,
Canada :)"
I'm starting to think that there's no way I'm going to meet a guy on here
without scaring them off first. Most of them are whiny babies who say they 'just
want a normal girl' who 'is not psycho' and 'makes them happy'... puke
I think I scared a few away by responding to their invites to go out with a
list of questions about their emotional health...
I'm a believer in '3 strikes' you're out. Asking me out again before we
even order dinner on a blind date is a strike. Making stupid jokes about
touching me on your motorbike is a strike. Talking about getting married and
especially about having kids when we just met are strikes.
I used to be jaded, I used to put up with bullshit from insecure ex's,
something I am really not proud of. I want to say thank you for helping
me, I googled 'manipulative' and 'emotional abuse' when I became so
frustrated trying to convey how I was feeling. What actually happened was I
realized that he has issues beyond repair, along with almost every other guy I'd
dated. I left him and have been working on my own issues for the past year now,
and I think I've come a long way! I hope I have anyway. I can now recognize men
with emotional issues a mile away, to which I give credit completely to this
site. Thank you!! I may not be ready yet, but I hope I am and if not, I know
I'll get there.
Country: United States
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