I have been called a Heartless Bitch many times. I call it realism and self-esteem.

When I have refused to change myself to something I know I am not, for a man, I've been called stubborn, cold and "impossible to love".

When I dumped a man for cheating on me repeatedly, I was called "unable to feel empathy", a Bitch, and again, cold.

I was called a Bitch when I told a guy that I didn't want to have unprotected sex with him, and this has happened with three separate men.

I was called a Bitch when I first had a one-night stand but after that turned down the himbo who really thought he was a Godsend to all women, and after that he lied all his friends, telling them that *he* had dumped me - despite the fact that he kept calling me every 2 hours for 8 days, even after I told him to fuck off. He also referred to himself in the third person and wanted me to call him "The Boss".

I am frequently being told that I'm too loud and some people tell me it makes me unwomanly, which only results in me talking even louder. The want to be heard is strong in me.

Country: Finland

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