Lisa
I am a Heartless Bitch because I am strong-willed, self-motivated,
and independent in my thoughts and actions. I may sometimes get things done the
hard way, but at least I know it will be done to my satisfaction. I am not
hesitant to talk about controversial subjects of which I have some knowledge,
and will call out an ignorant, pablum-laced opinion for what it is. I love my
mind, my body, and my life, and I make it a priority to keep them healthy and
strong. I think I look damn good, and I find it satisfying to mentally
annihilate people who make the mistake that I am "all boobs and no brain". I
work hard, study hard, and am neither meek nor apologetic about my
accomplishments. Science is open to anyone with intelligence and a will to use
it.
I refuse to be a sounding board for the perpetual victims and defeatist
attitudes. Is it necessary for me hear why Plan A won't work because of Incident
B, and why Incident B can't be fixed because of Emotional Baggage C, and how
Emotional Baggage C is getting worse because Plan A won't work? HELL NO! Grow
up, grab some functional testes/ovaries and direct all that energy towards
finding a solution to your problems that does not involve my attention.
I do not need to reproduce to confirm that I am a woman... many, many
years of menstruation are proof enough! Admonitions of "You would be a great
mom, it would be such a waste if you didn't have kids" and "Having a baby
completes your life, you'll regret not having kids" do nothing for me except to
cause antipathy towards the Militant New Mommies (the usual source of these
comments). I knew in high school that my career was far more important to me
than having children, and over a decade later I still feel the same way. I'm
choosing to use my brain over my uterus, and have not felt one pang of this much
prophesized regret!
Being a Heartless Bitch means that my attitude may threaten, frustrate, and
just plain confuse you, but it also means this: if you're not happy with me,
that's your problem and yours alone. I am fine just the way I am.
Country: Canada
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