Lia
I don't actually get called a Bitch that often, but the times that I
do, it doesn't strike me as a bad thing at all. As far as I can tell, being a
Bitch is saying exactly what I mean without apologies to someone who strikes me
as exceptionally stupid, and if you ask me, that's something to be proud of. I
understand that I come across as a "nice girl" most of the time, and I'm fine
with that--as long as you aren't being an ass, I'm going to treat you with the
same respect I want to be treated, and that gets termed as "nice." I get that,
and hell, I'll even agree to it.
But me playing nice doesn't mean that I'm going to feed you polite lies
until I pass out from a lack of oxygen, and it doesn't mean that you get to tell
me what to do, say, think, or be. I don't care what you see when you look at me,
and I'm sure as hell not going to fake being someone else or try to change your
mind, but whatever your perception, I'm not a nice little girl--I'm a grown
woman with the social skills you're apparently lacking, and I can decide for
myself what's best for me, thanks so much.
So yeah, I don't have kids, and I don't plan on it--that's no one's
business but mine and my husband's, so if you got something to say about it, I'm
not interested. I'm sure we've given whether it's right for us a hell of a lot
more thought then you have. And yeah, I make a big chunk less money at my job
then he does at his--we don't have the same job, and it's not a problem for us,
so it definitely shouldn't be one for you. And it doesn't make me less of a
feminist or less my own person, either. Yeah, a lot of things make me fucking
pissed--and it's for a reason. Not because I'm "hormonal," as if you could do no
wrong. If it bothers you, good. That's the point.
I'm not judging you, because I don't know a damn thing about you--and I'm
happy with that, so don't take it as a request for information. All I'm asking
is that you return the favor, and if you don't, don't act so shocked if I smile
sweetly and tell you to fuck off. Being "nice" doesn't mean I have to put up
with your shit.
Country: Canada
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