Jennifer
I do realize that I don't need to be attached at the hip to a male in
order to live a satisfying life - and in fact, I think without the distraction,
I could definitely accomplish more in life. The idea that some people feel
they need to find that special "someone" in order to make their life whole or
"complete" is very sad - luckily, I am good enough on my own; I don't have to
waste my time weeding through drunk slobs, arrogant jerks, sexist pricks,
etc. Instead, I can focus on making the most of my own talents.
Do I date? Sure. If someone is interesting and intelligent I am
more than happy to spend some time with them. I love good
conversation. When I go out, though, I am well aware that 90% of the guys
I am talking to are just biding their time until they try to get in my pants,
and when I reject them they'll no longer be interested. Do I care?
Well, I feel somewhat sorry for them that they're so driven by their dicks, but
I'm not going to spend any time worrying about their self-control issues.
I will leave it up to the next chick to pine over him or give it up in the hopes
that he'll call her the next day.
I don't hate men, but I don't need them either. I do what I want to
do, with the people I want to do it with.
I am an open-minded person, but that doesn't mean I am gullible. I am
not a victim, because no one has made me do anything. I make my own
decisions, and learn from the poor ones. We all have bad experiences;
that's how the world works. I do not need to whine to the world about the
fact that I am experiencing a life that includes ups and downs just like
everyone else's.
I can support feminism and independence without hating men, and I don't
need to despise women who want their life to fit a stereotypical mold. We
all make our own choices, and experience different results in life
accordingly. I am sick of watching women limit themselves and adjust their
aspirations in life because of silly notions about finding a man and starting a
family in time. I am sick of hearing women lament their misfortune in
experiencing the same results in relationships, when they haven't changed a
thing and therefore should expect nothing but what they're getting.
However, since they clearly don't listen to advice, all I can do is learn not to
let my own life travel a similarly revolting road.
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