Ann
I'm a Heartless Bitch because I've never been able to fit that ultra-feminine stereotype of the gooey, doe-eyed, simpering, always sweet female. Don't get me wrong. As people go, I'm pretty decent and nice. In fact, I'm one of the most decent people I know.
I just refuse to play the simpering fool. Speaking of fools, I am often amazed at the stupid situations people get themselves into because of a total lack of common sense -- then they expect sympathy! Like the men and women who marry assholes and then whine about it. Spare me your martyr crap. If you hadn't made such a stupid choice in the first place, you wouldn't be living with someone who treats you like dog vomit.
I admire strong, smart, independent people who demand the best from themselves. I used to work with a woman whom I liked -- except for one thing. She used to flirt with the male bosses because she thought it would get her the job she wanted. It didn't, and it made me lose respect for her. I have always refused to be a female "Uncle Tom" and I have no use for women who play that. They bring us all down.
I admire people who have the guts to speak up and speak the truth. The "Emperor Has No Clothes" kind of courage. It's far too rare these days.
But I also need help from my Heartless Bitch sisters. I want to learn how to get stronger, smarter and more independent. Because even though I've managed to stand tall and be strong at times -- I know I still have room for improvement. You can never stop learning in life, and you can learn from people of any age. That is, if you're a smart Bitch.
And if you're going to be a Bitch, you'd better be smart. Because stupid + Bitch = laughingstock pain in the ass.
Man, that felt good. Nothing like a good Bitch session.
Country: United States
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