Sheila
I am a firm believer that I was not put on this planet to take shit from anyone. So I don't, and apparently that makes me a Bitch. Or so the general consensus says. If you want to get technical, my best friend's freak, er, husband said I am a "hard nosed, cold hearted, cast iron Bitch". Although, that is not my favorite label. My favorite is Evil Tyrant. I acquired that one because I've made three of my husband's friends cry. All three were adult males. I hesitate to call them "grown men" because I do actually know some grown men and I'd hate to lump them in the same category.
I speak my mind. I say what I think, when I think it, and I don't sugar-coat anything. That won't get you anywhere. I've learned that some people don't like that. They want to hear happy, fluffy words because it makes them feel better. Sorry, folks. If that's what you want, cry to someone else.
I don't deal well with whiners. Whiners make me cranky. I also don't deal with people who lie to me. I've ended long-term friendships over that. If I can't believe the words that are coming out of your mouth, I have no use for you and you should disappear.
I believe in challenging authority. If the authority in question is wrong, they SHOULD be challenged. Or beaten over the head with a rock, whichever is more suited to the person. One example would be my mother. In her eyes, she is an authority. In mine she is a raging narcissist and completely beyond reason. So there is no point in challenging her, and a thorough bludgeoning would have a much more satisfying effect.
I am not afraid to be who I am. Either take me for who I am or go find a hobby. I was in a relationship once many years ago where I sidelined my own beliefs and basically the very core of who I am because I didn't fit the vision of who he thought I should pretend to be. Never again. I am not a trophy. My purpose in life is not to make someone else look good. My husband usually enjoys the eccentricity, even though he does get a bit confused at times. At least he doesn't scare easily.
I will stand up for my family, my fur-child, and my closest friends to the bitter end. My three month old daughter is my entire world. Anyone who ever hurts her will find themselves planted in my backyard.
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