Rae
I am a very honest person, I was taught to be honest about things and
people by my mother another Heartless Bitch, in fact my mother has been
instructing me to be a Heartless Bitch pretty much since I began to talk. I try
to see the world for what it really is- -a giant steaming pile of crap. I
hate people who won't accept this, and tell them so in no uncertain terms.
Actually I always tell people when I think that they are wrong and I don't feel
compelled to be kind about it. Honesty should be just that: honest. I
don't see the point of sparing people's feelings just to appear 'nice' because
it is expected of "young ladies" (as girls my age are called).
Girls my age are also supposed to show respect to those who are older than
us. I don't believe people deserve your respect purely because they were
born before you were. I don't show respect until it has been earned,
and I don't see why I should be expected to. As you can probably tell I
have authority issues. I do not appreciate or react well to being told
what to do, and if I don't see the reasons behind what I have been asked to do,
I won't do it. This got me into trouble a lot at school; my lack of respect for
teachers that I didn't feel deserved it and my tendency to explain myself when I
was told I was wrong but disagreed. However if I am proved wrong I accept it. No
one is always right, and when you're wrong you should take responsibility for it
and say the necessary apologies. This is not something that I stopped doing when
I left school. I always stand up for myself and for those I believe to be right
but won't or can't stand up for themselves. It annoys me tremendously when
people are obviously correct, but back down for fear of appearing strong or
opinionated. People should voice their opinion without fear of
how it might make them appear to others. This is why I love punk music--
they are a group of people not afraid of the repercussions of what they sing
about, and that gains my respect. No pussy-footing around, no being politically
correct; the world would be a much better place if people expressed themselves
honestly.
I am not two faced. If I dislike a person, they are aware of it and the
reasons behind it. I will not pretend to like a person if I don't.
'Bitching' behind a persons back and not to their face gives Bitches a bad name.
Being a Bitch is about NOT being afraid to say what bothers you about
a person to that person. I especially dislike those people who, after
being confronted on sniping about you behind your back, refuse
admit it. Those people do not deserve to be called Bitches and should be
ashamed.
So basically the reasons that I believe myself to be a Heartless Bitch are
that I am honest, opinionated, stubborn, short-tempered and the fact that I've
been told that I am so many times I feel that it must be true.
Country: England
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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