Melissa
I'm sick and tired of being called a man-hater, a dyke, or a dirty
feminist every time I express views that lead to the inevitable conclusion that
there's no superiority in any sex. Men are obviously not superior to
women, and I don't think women are superior to men. Of course, this is a
generalization, all people have different talents and abilities. But a
woman's list of talents does not have to include house-cleaning, procreating,
driving the mini-van to soccer practice, or looking sexy in lingerie. I of
course, DO look sexy in lingerie, but it's because I want to, not because I'm
supposed to. How the hell is it possible in the 21st century for women to
be doctors, lawyers, senators, and everything else, and yet they're also
supposed to be the den mother and porn star to every fucking man who walks
through their life?
One of my greatest talents is speaking what I perceive to be the truth and
not giving a shit whether it offends or not. I've given up on so many
"friends" who can't seem to understand that a difference in opinion is not the
end of the world. A woman who speaks her mind is a threat to no one but
the weak. Sticks and stones and all that shit. So what if we don't
share the same opinion? Is it really all that important to our friendship
if we like the same color? Should we now start wearing matching
outfits? Honestly, who would even want to be friends with someone who
agreed with everything they said? Sure as hell not me. The people,
both men and women, who I choose to have in my life are people who speak their
mind and don't give in. Do they say the same things I say? Do they
have the same beliefs? Of course not. They don't care and neither do
I. We get along BECAUSE we are different, not in spite of it.
I also have a deep sense of disdain for women who allow men to be abusive
ignorant fucks. I can't count the number of times I've heard a woman tell
me how violent and aggressive her boyfriend/husband/father is to her. I
don't care. That's your choice. YOU are the one perpetuating the
violence, YOU are the one allowing it to happen. It makes me sick and I
have absolutely no words of advice for such stupidity. There are much
better ways to ruin your life, and I have much better things to do with my time
than lecture to a woman who just wants to complain and then do nothing about
it. Whining is a disease and the best cure is silence.
I'm also, as a Bitch, quite within my right to wear jeans and a t-shirt or
a dress and perfume without it changing who I am. I don't need old men
coming up to me and telling me how much they like my red lipstick. Wearing
makeup is not the sign of a feeble mind, and it's not an indicator that you're
out to "catch a man." The next time someone asks why I'm all dressed up
and then winks, I'm gonna grind my stiletto heel into their instep. Being
a woman and a Bitch is not about what you wear or how you smell, it has nothing
to do with the music you listen to or the movies you like. Of course I
like looking good, doesn't everybody? And so what if I like silly movies
or cry in the theater? "Oh, those are things women do." Yeah, just
like painting your chest blue and jumping up and down drinking beer at a
football stadium are things "men do." Most of the men I know would be
extremely offended at that generalization, and yet it's okay to make the same
one about women? I don't think so. Fine, so every time I watch "The
Green Mile," I cry. So does my dad, so fuck off. I've painted my
face and supported my local sports team, so fuck off again.
Labels don't help people, they only add confusion and ignorance. It's
up to people everywhere to accurately define any label they choose to apply to
themselves. If you're going to call yourself a woman, then for fuck's sake
BE a woman. Don't be a rug for someone to walk all over. And if
you're going to call yourself a Bitch, for fuck's sake quit the whining.
Bitches go out and BE Bitches, they don't have to DO anything. Actions
definitely speak louder than words, and these "Bitches" who prop themselves up
as so and then don't follow through only help to add to the stereotype of what a
Bitch is. Heartless doesn't mean lacking compassion for those who deserve
it, it means letting go of all the emotional bullshit that is unworthy.
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