Mary
This is embarrassing, but I don't have a prepared answer for this question. I've thought about it. I managed several, cute one-liners. However, I am not 100% sure what makes me a Heartless Bitch.
I could tell you that I was raised with an innate insecurity and shyness that made me very good at playing the role of the victim. Or that I, like so many women, grew up with the idea that physical beauty is a measure of self-worth.
I've come a long way from that girl who allowed herself to be picked on. Never standing up for herself in fear of saying the wrong thing. I've come a long way from that girl who was filled with anger and felt sorry for herself. And I've come a long way from that girl who sat around lazily, daydreaming and waiting for opportunities to fall into her lap rather than taking the initiative.
I'm sure everyone has a story to tell, a past that they have since overcome. Perhaps it is a little cliché, but I don't know anyone who was born with all the answers. I believe most of us need to make some bad mistakes before we gain some wisdom or self-respect. And hell, I've had some real good times making some real bad choices.
I admit. There are days I need my training wheels. I'm not anywhere close to being the Heartless Bitch that I want to be. But I can see the potential in myself and I realize that I am responsible for who I am and where I am going in my life.
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