Jenny
I'm a Heartless Bitch because I always tell my friends straight up if they are wrong in any area of their lives, whether they ask or not. I do not consider myself nosey, just concerned and highly opinionated. Honestly, if they were to ever tell me to butt out, I would, but it's still never happened to this day.
The issue of relationships is especially a hot button for me because, although I admit I am a romantic at heart (beyond the puke worthy romantic clichés), I can’t allow the guy to get the upper hand. Relationships are 50:50 and a lot of girls still do not realize this, and grow weak over time, succumbing to excuse of, "he loves me, it's ok" or "it's complicated, we'll work it out out though." If the guy hits you, end all ties with him. How simple. If he cheats on you and it's planned, end it. Those past two scenarios have been experienced firsthand by two of my friends and myself, but apparently, they don't have enough pride in themselves to quit talking to these guys. This infuriates me because what have these guys done to earn the opportunity to be our friends? Absolutely nothing. My Heartless Bitchiness came out on the guys, and my 2 girl friends. Us girls are not living together next year after being together for 2 years, because I am sick of hearing them complain one minute about “how much guys suck” to bringing the guys/drama back in theirs (and my) life the next or randomly getting with the closet penis.
I have lived by what my mother told me at an early age: "I'd rather be alone than lower myself." In this case, I refuse to swallow my pride for an artificial relationship with an asshole just because he's "hot" or "the sex is great" or because I like to be in a committed relationship. These are not good enough reasons for anyone. Ever. And I refuse to be close to any girl who is tolerant of any bullshit from cocky guys just because these girls “have a hard time moving on.” It’s all a cover up for “I’m a stupid Bitch who wants to be taken advantage of for the rest of my life because I can’t take care of myself.”
I have a backbone and at times even if I don't completely get over a guy, if he treated me poorly, we're through. The friends of mine that have not been able to cut ties with these boys have repeatedly been told this from myself. I've said to many of them that, "I no longer want to hear your problems. I've tried the listening then the touch love as it kept happening, but now it's reached the 'I don’t give a damn and tough shit for you if you're screwed over again' stage. Don't come to me for anymore emotional help." And if they even bother to seek my help AGAIN, the responses just grow harsher and harsher. Flat out, they're told that they are wasting theirs and my time with their relationship history repeating itself, and it’s reached the point where I can’t wait to move out and away from them. Harsh maybe, but I would never want a friend to fluff up any advice when talking to me, so why should I?, especially when I’m smart enough to move on for the better of myself.
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