Dani
HO-LY SHIT. I came upon your site through a google search for "emotionally unavailable women" and I have to say that your manifesto is my BIBLE. That said, please consider me for membership. Here's my story:
For a long time, I identified as a feminist, but that's when I thought feminism meant empowerment and real social EQUALITY, not "waaaaaahhhh, enable me or I'll diiiiiiiiiiiee." Which, unfortunately, IS what feminism means these days to too many people. Crying victimization at the DROP OF A HAT. And they'll make up shit like "acquaintance rape" so that they can play the fucking victim card all the time. Rape? Give me a fucking break. It's called a BAD NIGHT.
So then I identified as a misogynist. Oh, don't get me wrong, I'm about the least sexist person you'll ever meet, but I am a MISOGYNIST. I hate women not because I think they're inherently weak, but because they've convinced themselves they're inherently weak. All our fucking lives we've been told "you're prey. you're a victim." And what I have never, ever understood is why no one ever objects. Isn't the natural reaction to be INSULTED and to make a point of proving to everyone that you AREN'T prey? I always seemed to be the only girl who got offended by this kind of condescending bullshit; everyone else just sort bought into it with an eagerness I could never fathom.
And I do harbor a mild dislike toward men, but I can't hate them too much, because I identify with them. I do HATE women though, because I fucking hate weakness more than anything, and because I have never understood them at all. That's not to say men aren't faultless -- I certainly have my grievances about them.
One thing I can't fucking stand about some men: It's always about "getting the girl". They'll try convince you to like them on the basis that they like you. SORRY, that's not how it works, Bitch. I'll date you if I'm attracted to you. I won't if I'm not. And don't try to change my mind, because you can't. I mean, what the fuck is this, the middle ages? You think you can "woo" me? You think I'm just going to sit back and wait, and fall into the lap of whomever PURSUES me? Surprisingly enough (DISGUSTINGLY enough) though, this works with so many women. I guess it makes them feel wanted or something. Pathetic.
I have NO patience for men who think they can "win" me over with persistence, or "win" me at all.
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