Amber
I stand up for myself when it's necessary, although one of those lessons I learned pretty quickly was to pick my battles. I also learned to pick my opponents. It's really useless to yell at or get angry with a cashier or waiter/waitress when they either can't or won't do anything to help you.
I do try my best to help people but I won't put up with whiners. Whining is all well and good, but it doesn't solve any problems. I give advice if I am asked for it, maybe more if I think it will help, but only to the people who actually listen. It's pretty easy to spot the people who ask for advice but really want you to tell them what they want to hear. I have found it's best to tell those people to go listen to their reflection and leave.
I have a healthy relationship with a man who cares about me, and whom I care about. I made it very clear the day he told me he loved me that although I loved him as well, I wouldn't tolerate any attempts to control my life, or lie to me. I'm fairly calm and forgiving, but someone who would do those things is not someone I want in my life, and I am a little proud to say I've rid myself of the liars who were in my life before.
Basically, I'm a Heartless Bitch because I don't let people push me around, I go after what I want, I'm not a hater of any kind of people even if the stupid ones are kind of annoying, and I value intelligence in myself and others. I thought it might be nice to join a website where most if not all of the stupid people have been weeded out.
Country: Canada
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