Virginia
I can look at a situation and person from several different
perspectives, however I'm going to call Bullshit! when I see it. Whining,
laying blame on others and finding excuses just feed into weakness and
dependence. I'm a Heartless Bitch because I believe responsibility and an
understanding of one's actions should be taken. Whether those actions result in
mistakes or accomplishments.
I have a brain, a body and a good understanding of both (and am continually
learning something new). How I use them is my responsibility and I will
face the consequences if the decisions I make are not the best. What I do
to pay my rent, who I date, what I wear, and how others perceive me are mine to
deal with based on my decisions and actions.
My parents, ex-boyfriends, friends, and any other human interaction or
experience I've had didn't fuck me up, but helped me become the skeptically
optimistic Heartless Bitch I am today. I may not hold the same world view
as the media, church, and other institutions dictate, but I do use my ability to
think for myself to determine where I work, what I say, and how I interact with
others.
I take responsibility when I'm wrong and don't feel gloating is needed to
validate myself when I'm right. I'm not Heartless for running people down
with self-righteousness and animosity. I'm Heartless for utilizing my
abilities to critically think and evaluate while taking emotions into
consideration to point my life in the direction I want it to go. I'm not a
Bitch for being catty, manipulative or not caving into societies perceptions of
how a woman should be. I'm a Bitch because I speak up when I have
something to say, don't fold under pressure, and have enough self-worth to not
seek validation through sex, martyrdom and fished for compliments based on
superficial qualities.
Country: United States of America
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