Ruthie
Reading the contents of this site almost made me cry.
I never, NEVER expected that there were so many other Heartless Bitches out there! It's wonderful! It's amazing! I AM NOT ALONE!!!
Finding a site that so aptly described my whole take on the male/female dance we do was incredibly refreshing. Every article I read, I said "Yes! Yes!! YES!!!" I was practically orgasming with glee. I'm surprised my roommates didn't investigate to see if I was still conscious.
I have been an independent, confident, self-empowered female since I was four. And I have spent the intermittent fourteen years wondering why the boys didn't like it and why the girls around me didn't get with the program. It was especially difficult in high-school, as you can imagine...a San Diego, California high school, which made it that much worse. I also have been irritated with my body...which, unfortunately for me, happens to be the kind that every cheerleader obsessed about (size 1, D cup) and every guy goggled at. I was forced to wear baggy sweaters so that people would stop judging me based on my appearance...and so the guys would stop ogling my goodies, which pisses me the fuck off. The fact that I had to hide myself pissed me off too, because I shouldn't have to.
I have been called a Heartless Bitch on many, MANY occasions. I have yet to be in a situation where I cared, and in many of them my response was "Damn right, and proud of it!"
I write for my college's newspaper, and I've actually published two columns on this very subject. By all means, please investigate:
Ditching The Dating Game
My favorite column that got me a Columnist of the Week award from generating so much feedback.
Dating In America Is Severely Afflicted
Country: United States of America
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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