Leah
When strangers make verbal passes at me in the street, I deal with it. On the spot. I've been called a Bitch, a slut and many other things by men who don't know me, simply because I took them to task for assuming that I was silently hungering for their sexual validation.
I'm currently studying business information technology at university and several times, guys have remarked that they thought I was "a marketing chick"; those girls who are classified as bimbos because they are attractive and studying something that is perceived as being lightweight.
I spent two years in a relationship with a very nice guy who I could not stand; this was not his fault but mine and I own that responsibility. His passivity, his inability to be passionate, his perpetual apathy made me realise that I had been dishonest with myself; that I didn't want a nice guy or a security blanket.
I am TIRED of men and a good deal of women branding me as promiscuous simply because I have an open mind when it comes to sex. I am FED UP with men assuming that my personal sexual awareness is an invitation to any and all of them. When I dumped the nice guy, the women around me were more upset than I was.
I am uncompromising; I am also honest with myself. The worst feeling I have ever known was that I was not listening to my needs and my feelings. I consider myself a Heartless Bitch because I will never, ever allow my personal truths to be compromised again.
Country: Australia
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