Krish
When I first came across this site, the title mislead me because the name "Heartless Bitch" sounds quite harsh in reality, but to me the term "heartless" implies something else. To me it means that my heart is not limitless. I am a compassionate person but at the same time if others are not willing to help themselves, why should I feel for them or waste my time and effort when they are more than capable?
I respect those who take action and better themselves as a person, spiritually and emotionally and who have gotten to a point where even to speak of the "the dickhead's" name would be a waste of breath. Bitching about a boyfriend or husband just makes a person look as weak and pathetic as whom they are bitching about, then to top it off they confirm how stupid and sick the relationship is and of course haven't done anything... too many patterns like this make any bitch limit her heart only because her heart is too big.
Since a Bitch is "Being in total control, honey! It is being able to account for and take responsibility for my own actions and decisions without transferring blame, how can a woman be in total control when it was supposedly "all his fault" or "all men are bastards" Did they not have a choice or were they held at gunpoint to not make any decisions?
I do not hate men, I hate any poor examples that exist of them.
I also do not agree with women who become a "Miss I am strong now... but, FUCK YOU still because you're a lying, cheating and worthless bastard, so I'll burn your house down and make you suffer and bleed because I am a STRONG woman!!!!!"
To me this is just lack of maturity and letting out frustration and anger from a heart that has not healed and moved on yet. If these women were really as strong as they claim to be, then why are they still bitching? Are they not over the so-called bastard? If he is so worthless why waste their words on him? Does that "bastard" deserve all the credit their giving him when they show he still has not left their thoughts? In my opinion this shows he still has some kind of control over them, I would never let some bastard drive me to the point many of these women are at...that would be displaying my own lack of self control.
Even though I have not experienced many years of trauma and lessons, I do not need to experience repetitive hell to learn. I have made mistakes and have been through some hell, but in no way did that change me into a power-hungry, relentless and vengeful person.
I am in total control because I take responsibility for all my actions and I can account for all my decisions. I would not be applying if I was not a happy person who was not satisfied with my life and if I wanted to bitch about how all men are dickheads and boast about how strong and clever I am, I really would not be filling out this application because if I was like that, then it proves I do not know the meaning of becoming a member. If I do get accepted, thank god the forums are exclusive to members, I would not like to blindly consent to associate with the kinds of people posted on weak of the week. The rejection of their applications strengthened my desire to join since I know that the applicants that were accepted are most likely to be the kind of people that I would like to be associating with.
Country: England
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