Jen
My Heartless Bitch qualities. An interesting thought in and of itself simply because this is the first time I've ever had to write about it. But here goes.
For the most part, I can't stand how most of the female sex acts. I hate women who decide that they have to cry, whine and plead to get their way, that pisses me off faster than anything and I REALLY want to smack them and tell them to grow the hell up and be a woman about whatever man has dumped them this time. In fact I've ended up telling quite a few of them to grow up, and then when they ask me why he left them, I have to tell them to listen to what they've said, then ask again and I'll give them a clue. Granted, I don't object to using "feminine wiles" but not for manipulation. Most times I use these wiles to get laid and then, poof, I'm done. And by wiles I mean flirting and sometimes just flat out asking to get laid, but I'm in the control of the situation, I HAVE the power to tell someone to fuck off and die when they're coming onto me and I don't want them to. And I have. Numerous times. I'm very independent and I think I can do almost anything a man can, except for writing my name in the snow, that would be way too cold. But I can work, pay my bills, work on cars and KNOW what I'm doing.
I've found that in general people are just stupid and I've told more than a few of them this. I swear they can't read or find anything for themselves, men and women alike. I used to work at a convenience store and ran into this all the time. When asked where the restroom was (there were TWO BIG signs hanging up) I began to tell them that we didn't have one; we were forced to hold it for 8 hours.
I'm opinionated and I'm not afraid to let people know what I think, regardless of what it might be. To sum it up, don't ask a question if not wishing an honest answer. Deal with it, get over it, see a shrink, I don't care. There are a lot of decaffeinated brands on the market, try one.
But one of my crowning glories, one of my very best revenge tactics was of course with an ex boyfriend. No, this isn't going to a whiny long detailed of how he fucked me over. Simply put, I caught him cheating on me. I kicked him out and about a month went by till he called me, wanting me to keep him on my car insurance. So I said, sure, give me the money and I'll do it. (He owed me lots of money anyway) So I took the money, and oooops, forgot to keep him on my insurance. So when he wrecked his car in a drunken stupor, he was screwed and lost his license. Revenge is sweet.
I really want to smack anyone who thinks they have to validate themselves by being in a relationship. Like being single makes them any less of a person. Grow up, be yourself and see where that goes. Good Gods what a shocking concept! Support yourself for once and see what happens. Amazing what a bit of self worth can do for one's confidence and self-esteem. It's like when someone stays with someone who beats on her because "Oh I love him and he only does it when I deserve it" -snickers- right. If you leave him and go back, you "deserve" what he/she gives you.
In short, these are a few of my Heartless qualities, and believe me, I've been called Heartless quite a few times.
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