I am not aggressive or forceful, I am not arrogant or irrational, I am not masculine or pro antagonistic, I am not single minded or judgmental and I do not need to be-little others to feel strong, but to many people, I am extremely threatening. I feel that I am compassionate, understanding and respectful. But it is the abilities I lack set me apart- I am unable pretend weakness to prop up the fragile ego of men who may feel inadequate. I feel entitled to use all the intelligence I posses and lastly I have the courage of my convictions.

I had spent many hours trying to figure out what was wrong with me? Would it be better if I was hopeless at my job? Would it be better if I smiled more regardless of how I felt? Laugh flirtatiously when I'm patronised or be flattered when I'm leered at? Was my appearance a true reflection of my total value?

Having taken the time to cross examine my behavior and analyze it with much scrutiny I know my weakness' and I know own mind . Thus, I no longer look to change, instead I take the title Heartless Bitch as a compliment.

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