Fidelma
No, I am neither a lesbian nor a feminist because I wear my hair short. I refuse to be offended by the fact that you think I am intimidating. Actually I find it a bit of a compliment. I will not be played, no matter how much of a player you are. I play no games, I take no prisoners and I will always go for what I want, regardless of what society, my friends or my family think of it.
I'm 23 and on my way up. I will sleep with a guy if I find him attractive, both in looks and intellect. In fact, intellect is the more important of the two, I need a man who is intelligent and who will challenge me. That does not mean I am in love with him, nor does it mean that I am a slut or a whore.
I don't want your worship. Don't make me your princess on a pedestal because, you know what, I am only human and the gold will soon be seen to tarnish. Don't tell me you love me after a few short weeks. You don't know me yet and clearly you don't know what love is.
I will tell you what I think (be you male or female), not because I am trying to hurt you but because I have no time for games of any kind, no time to spend trying not to offend people just because they are soft. I will listen to your problems but only if you are trying to do something about them. If you are just whining.... then leave me alone. I have no time for whingers. Life is about choices and decisions. You are free to make them.... so please do so. No one is locked into a hopeless cycle that they can do nothing about. If you choose to be unhappy, then there is nothing I can do about it.
I have made choices that have been wrong, I have learned from my mistakes. I have made choices that have been right, I have grown from my experiences. I will not follow the crowd just because. If all this makes me a Heartless Bitch, then I'd be delighted to be one.
Country: Ireland (Republic)
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