It is hilarious that this came across this path when it did,
because just this last weekend my friend talked me
into going out, and what happened fits my submission:
This old guy in a mechanics uniform came up and started grinding on me
on the dance floor. I tried to be diplomatic, I gently pushed him away
and told him that I didn't like dancing close. I went and sat down, and
there he was going on and on and bugging me. I tried once again to be
diplomatic and told him that I really wasn't interested, and he said,
"open up baby, open up." I then looked him in the eyes and told him
that he was bothering me, and that it was not
my duty or responsibility to open up to him or flirt with him just
because he came on to me. So of course, he called me a bitch - and
then the bouncer stepped in. I really have a problem with this idea a
lot of guys have that if they tell us how beautiful they think we are
(in whiskey ridden breath) that we should fall all over them.
Another thing I cannot seem to understand is women who bounce from one
loser to another. They plague you with phone calls accusing their
chosen mate of terrible treatment, yet when you say, "leave him then,"
you are the bad guy or you are jealous. OH YES that is just what I need,
a dysfunctional codependent relationship to make me a whole woman. Yikes!
Anyway (hehe), I am 22 years old, I live alone and have for 6 years,
I am a psych/English major at Texas A&M and work part-time cleaning
cottages and beach houses on the small island that I live on. I firmly
believe that we create our lives and get angry when others sit back
and whine over things they lack and problems that they have instead
of going out and doing something about it, reaching for their goals,
and seeking solutions.
I have no intention of putting out a false front - this is who I am, an assertive woman,
and I would like to meet new friends of like mind so that we can affirm each
other. It is good to have friends that are of my element, friends that will
tell me when I have a booger hanging out of my nose and when I am doing
something silly or whining to tell me to shut up and change it.
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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