My attitude is "If I'm doing everything then why the hell are you here?".
Also, when I know I have done all that I could possible have done
in my relationships, I open up the door and say "You can kiss my black ass",
and tell them to leave. I don't have time for people who make excuses
for themselves or who blame others for their mistakes. Damn, I sound like
my sperm donor.
I also take the attitude that NO means no. It don't mean maybe.
I can't stand it when I'm out with my sisters and some asshole comes
over and says "I see you ladies are by yourself". Me being the mouth
that I am, I say, "No, we are not".
I'm considered the black sheep of the family because of my attitude.
It took a long time coming, but I'm so glad that self-empowerment
kicked in. It's a wonderful thing. I always picked the men in my life
when I was involved. I let them know that, "You are here because I chose you to be".
I have my own life and if you're here to get a free ride, then get off my
damn bus. I also tell them that school is out and I'm retired. I'm
tired of being someone's teacher. However, my teaching days came back
in session 4 years ago when I had my one and
only son. Things didn't work out with his father and it took a year
to decide what to do and the decision was for him to get the hell out of
my house. It's pathetic you know... he thought that I couldn't kick him
out or get the police involved. I said, "Look here, you asshole... this is
my house, my property. You are going to be on the outside looking in."
Life is great. Self-empowerment is great and truly a wonder. I came
to accept that I deserved a lot more than what I got and what I
put into it. I speak my mind and my opinions and when men can't deal
with it, then sorry, they can't deal with me. I'm very respectful when
I voice my opinion, but if needed I can get down and dirty with the best
of them.
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